“So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me… everyday.”- Said Nicholas Sparks.
Yes it holds true for all marriages, especially in today’s times when our lives are filled with countless priorities and somewhere we take our marriage for granted until one day when we realise that our relationship is not what it used to be. If your marriage has reached this juncture then here are a few very simple workable tips to get back to the first few years of your marriage.
Rekindle Romance In Your Marriage
Exclusive Time For Each Other
Major issue with marriages today is that both the parties namely, husband and wife are extremely busy in their respective lives with their professional, social or even family commitments to provide each other with quality time. However there is a need to assign time earmarked as couple time.
If you are in a joint family then may be retire to your bedroom a little early to just spend some time with each other without anyone interrupting. A simple conversation about your day can fulfil you. If you are too busy then a date night ones in a week can be a starting point.
Explore and find a new common hobby that you both enjoy. It could be something as simple as solving a crossword together, playing some game or just reading a book together. The hobby brings excitement and a great way to spend time together
In a very hectic lifestyle travelling far from your daily mundane life can be a great stress buster and automatically throws both of you together. At your chosen destinations just relax, go for walks and chill.
If you both are a little adventurous then choose a place that provides ample opportunities to explore your adventurous side.
Surprise Each Other
The biggest reason why most of the marriages lose their charm over a period of time is because there is hardly any mystery or intrigue left therein. It becomes like a book you have read with some chapters that you have gone through more than fifty times at least!
This is the reason surprising each other sometimes work like a whiff of fresh air. A bunch of flowers sent for your spouse, a book that your spouse has wanted to read, spontaneous romantic date and numerous such surprises just add the element of anticipation.
Decide to meet at a pre designated time and place, and act like strangers meeting for the first time. Surprise each other with your respective roles unknown to each other until that very moment. You will want to act out all your fantasies in this set up!
These tips will surely help you but most important aspect of a marriage is your love, trust and respect for each other. On these three pillars, one can build a very strong married life.